Saturday, October 17, 2009

Mission Follow-up!

On January 28th, 2009, blessed by the outpouring of support from my benefactors, I arrived in Ecuador, full of zeal to be once again in this country I have loved so dearly since my first trip in 2004 and to continue in the work I had started in September of 2007 at Fundación Santa María del Fiat. I returned to the States on May 29th, just in time to attend my Pre-Orientation for medical school at the University of Minnesota, Duluth. The months between were packed full, and I arrived home exhausted in every way. But perhaps this is as it should be, for Blessed Mother Teresa would say, “Give until it hurts.” I could rattle on and on about all that occurred, the ups and downs, the joys and the challenges. But I know your time is valuable to you. So I invite you to glimpse into my mission life by relating to you a story about one particular young woman: Señora María.


I first met María in the fall of 2007. She lives in a tiny community, La Rinconada, nestled into the oceanside cliffs at the furthest edge of the province. She, her fisherman husband, and her two (now three!) delightful children soon became dear friends. In the typical yet forever astounding show of Ecuadorian hospitality, my first trip to La Rinconada included an invitation to her home for deliciously fresh fruit juice, straight-off-the-boat seafood and a pile of rice. Her warm smile and easy laughter paired with the tender love within her family immediately drew me to them. I distinctly recall comparing myself to this dear friend, close in age but what seemed to be worlds apart. Due to other responsibilities, I could not return to this serene little village with much frequency, but as often as I could, I snuck away on Saturday afternoons with Father Othmar who celebrated Mass every week in their chapel dedicated to the Immaculate Heart of Mary.


When I returned to Ecuador in January, many things had changed at the foundation, including the work they needed me to complete. Instead of primarily caring for our resident children, I filled two roles: community-based first aid instructor and clinic nurse. At the request of the foundation’s healthcare outreach, another volunteer nurse named Sara and I planned and implemented a ten-week basic first aid course that we taught in four of the more remote communities. To my immense elation, La Rinconada was chosen as one of the locations. María, despite her lack of access to education beyond elementary school, is a very intelligent woman, and she was, of course, eager to attend the course. Week after week, Sara or I would take the twenty-minute bus ride up the coast then walk the twenty minutes down the newly paved road to our destination. Emerging from the forest to come around the bend where the ocean first came into view never ceased to be a breathtaking moment for me. And there, every Monday afternoon in one of the community’s two classrooms, a beautiful thing would occur. Twelve people from the community, from pre-teens to the middle-aged, would gather to be empowered with knowledge about their health. Nothing earth-shattering was covered in the lecture material: vital sign assessment, prevention of disease transmission, basic anatomy. But their lives were touched. They were amazed that these crazy white girls hiked their way over every week to teach them. They were challenged by the experience of being in a classroom setting when some of them had not even finished elementary school. They were thrilled at the opportunity to improve themselves. María, her newborn baby, and her twelve-year-old son completed the course at the top of their class.


Had life circumstances been different, María could be the one starting medical school this fall. Instead, she and her husband will continue to care lovingly for their three children. They will continue fighting to get one more step ahead. They will continue the daily routines of fishing for lobster and washing their clothes in the river. Their life is simply and truly beautiful.


And me? I have the opportunity to study medicine now, to gain the knowledge necessary to care for people like María and her family.


Neither path is better. And we both will be fulfilled by pursuing the Lord’s Will with great joy and fervor. But I certainly realize the great gift it is to have the opportunity that lays before me now. May it not be taken for granted.


Thank you so much for your prayers and support. May you be blessed abundantly in your own daily mission.


With Love, Prayers, and Appreciation,

Mariya

Monday, February 16, 2009

Un Señor...

Last week I was working in the pharmacy of the small clinic that the foundation operates. In the intense equatorial heat of the afternoon sun, an elderly man rode up on his bicycle. As many other patients that day, he had come to have a prescription filled. As we chatted with him a bit amidst the exchange of medicines, he told us that he rode his bike 30 kilometers from his home to arrive at our clinic, where medicines are often sold at lower prices than other pharmacies. 60 kilometers roundtrip. And why? To save $1.20 in bus fare. This dear old man must have been over 70-years-old. He came without complaining about the nuisance of the long trip. He even joked that the exercise is good for his cholesterol level. He was just doing what had to be done, with simplicity and a smile.
Peace and Blessings,
m

Saturday, January 24, 2009

Headed back...once again.

Thanks to all who have so generously supported this work, I will be returning to Ecuador on Wednesday the 28th of January!!!!!! I will post an update as soon as I can, and in the meantime, please continue to pray.
May you be blessed!
Peace,
m

Sunday, January 11, 2009

The long-awaited update...

Sunday, January 11th, 2009
Baptism of the Lord

Peace of Christ! I hope and pray that this Christmas season has been a blessed time of peace and joy for you and yours. The following is a copy of the letter I will be sending out to friends and family, summarizing my time in missions and explaining the next adventures of this little soul.

As you probably know, my life in missions really began during my time as a nursing student at Franciscan University of Steubenville in Ohio. Throughout my university years, I became increasingly involved with medical and catechetical mission work in the country of Ecuador. I had always thought my future would be in Africa, amidst the poor there, but after my first visit to South America, my heart was captured by the Ecuadorian people and the ministry to be completed in their country.

I graduated with my Bachelors Degree in Nursing in May of 2007. Thus, after four years of study interspersed with five mission trips ranging from ten days to three months in length, I graduated from university and moved to my beloved mission territory. Teaming with Fundacion Santa Maria del Fiat, a beautiful Catholic foundation on the coast of Ecuador, I was privileged to be the nurse for approximately two hundred resident children with backgrounds of abuse, neglect, and abandonment. The work was difficult and immense, but I treasured each moment. After six months with this foundation, I felt the Lord’s conviction upon my heart to return to the States to pursue medical school. I want to be a physician in service to those who are ignored, those who are forgotten, those for whom no one else cares. My departure from Ecuador in March of 2008 was incredibly trying, as I loved the work I was doing. But Jesus was offering me an invitation to drop my nets and follow Him. So I did. Now, ten months later, I have been offered a place in my top choice medical school, University of Minnesota, Duluth, a school committed to training family practice doctors for rural communities. The Lord is so faithful to His little ones.

In these past months, I have been quite busy with prerequisite courses, MCAT preparation, and medical school applications. Nonetheless, in many ways, my heart remains in Ecuador. In order to have everything arranged to enter medical school this coming fall, I had to leave my mission much sooner than I had anticipated or desired. I have been back to the foundation for two quick visits since I left in March, and there is still much work to be done. The foundation is actually experiencing a bit of turbulence as new and unexpected challenges face the work they have done for forty years. Since I have already been accepted to medical school, there is a window of time available for me to return to Ecuador and continue in the work I have already begun. Having this unexpected gift of time is an amazing opportunity.

An important lesson that I have learned during my time in missions is that one of the best gifts we are able to give to our fellow man is the gift of a loving presence. Sometimes in mission, it was easy for me to be overwhelmed by the needs of the people around me. If only I could better equip the doctor’s office that these children could receive the best that healthcare has to offer. If only I could build a latrine for this community to prevent the spread of disease. If only I could provide clean drinking water to decrease the incidence of intestinal infections. And of course, that was what my work as a healthcare provider was all about. But I had to constantly come back to the root of it all. More than any of the above, which are indeed important issues to address, the children, the people I worked with had a greater desire, a more ardent hunger for my unconditional love. Moreover, the unconditional love and mercy of their Heavenly Father. Pope Benedict XVI stated this so aptly in his encyclical Deus Caritas Est: “Seeing with the eyes of Christ, I can give to others much more than their outward necessities; I can give them the look of love which they crave.”

This is my hope in these next few months of mission. I do hope to continue working as their nurse, especially with a new project the foundation is developing to provide home care to the sick of the surrounding villages. But also, especially as the foundation is experiencing such hardship at this time, I hope to be a presence of love for my fellow workers, the children, and all those I am blessed to encounter. Now all that remains is the resources to make this mission possible, as I am ready to leave as soon as possible (hopefully by the end of January or beginning of February). I have been a student and missionary for long enough that my personal resources are meager. And I know that the economy is in a difficult place right now. Nonetheless, I feel that I must again give my Fiat, my yes to the Lord and trust that He will continue to provide for His little worker.

I am just that. Little. A little drop in the ocean. But as Blessed Mother Teresa would assert, the ocean would be less without that drop. I trust in His plan for me, I trust in His Providence. Thank you for taking the time to read my story. Please pray for me. Please help my little miracle to be realized, if you can.

St. Joseph, St. Gianna, St. Therese of Lisieux, St. Faustina, Blessed Teresa, pray for us.

Peace and Blessings,
m

PS: Please contact me at mehachey@yahoo.com for a mailing address for donations. Thank you!

Thursday, March 27, 2008

How can I be most pleasing to Your Heart, Jesus?

Peace of Christ in abundance. I do hope that this Easter season has been most blessed for each you, as we are reminded of just how much Jesus loves us.

I write to you from dear Minnesota, where the loveliness of springtime is chasing away the snow and cold. It has been an immense few weeks. I arrived in St. Paul on March 13th, started my MCAT class on March 15th, and life has continued at an intense pace. Getting myself on the plane and back to the States was the most difficult thing I have done in my young life, I do believe. Going down the walkway between the terminal and the plane, I stopped in my tracks with tears pouring down my cheeks and asked myself if I could really do this. Can I really leave this place I love so dearly? Well, by the grace of God and His conviction upon my heart, a few painful hours later, I was greeting my father in the Minneapolis-St. Paul airport.

And now? I am a student again. Physics, chemistry, biology, everything. Wow. Enlightening and exciting at times, laughably painful at others. But my objective is clear, and I am pursuing it with all my being. I am in the midst of understanding and managing the details of this pursuit, figuring out just what to anticipate and to prepare for in these months to come.

I am a crazy person, I have decided, with all these moment-to-moment changes. But our Jesus has been reminding me at each step that I belong only to Him. I have stopped asking, "Lord, show me Your Will" and instead I petition, "Let me please Your Heart, Jesus. What can I do to be most pleasing to You? How can I love You better?" And in this way, He will guide me through these days to come. If He says, "Bring your books and go study in Ecuador for the next few months," great! If He asks me to stay where I am, here I will be.

Thank you all for your love and support. Back at the mission base, they are gearing up for the new school year. The USA missionaries who are still down there are in the midst of a few new projects to help the situation of the foundation. To read more and support their important work, please refer to www.missionsantamaria.com and to the latest entry in Maribeth's blog (www.missionarymb.blogspot.com).

Peace and blessings,
m